My twitterverse has been going nuts lately with a discussion about the Five Love Languages. Ellison and I did it a while back and found that – surprise! – my top language is Service, followed by Time, and hers is TouchWords of Affirmation. (Full breakdown below, and you can take a non-heternormative-gendered test here, and a more kink-friendly version here.)
I’d love to hear what tells you that someone cares….
The Five Love Languages
My primary love language is probably
Acts of Service
with a secondary love language being
Quality Time.
Complete set of results
| Acts of Service: | 11 | |
| Quality Time: | 9 | |
| Physical Touch: | 6 | |
| Words of Affirmation: | 4 | |
| Receiving Gifts: | 0 |
Information
Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don’t understand our partner’s requirements, or even our own. We all have a “love tank” that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.
Ellison couldn't bear to see him relegated to the blog archive, so we're displaying him over here "forevs".